Archive for December, 2006


Short Post-Christmas Update

My new sister-in-law, Tamsin, says HI EVERYONE!! with her new hat she got for Christmas.

Tamsin

Amongst my presents, I got a santa hat and an awesome Cartman t-shirt – talented in so many ways

This is the view I have been seeing for the past week. I have to say that a white Christmas is very lovely.

Whitey Christmas

I wish I was snowboarding (or, more accurately, learning how to snowboard) but my tailbone is still out of commission. I did have a great time doing a 1.5hr yoga session with my step mom-in-law however and picked up some good tips on improving my yoga poses. It ain’t easy, them yoga poses! But I can’t wait to do more.

I miss my kitties.

Ok, one more picture of the snow princess & I’m off to bed. I’m too sleepy to make this a coherent post:

Baby T!

Merry Christmas!

I’m here in a very American town in Idaho and I’m loving Christmas here. There is snow on the ground outside, there’s barely anyone in the streets, the mountains paint every background…I’d never wanna live here, but I sure as hell love to visit.

A good quote for today as you are farming out your gifts:

“Please accept my gift that is brought to you, because God has dealt graciously with me, and because I have everything I want” – Genesis 33:11

kellykelly – Snowboarder…?

We are surely getting a white Christmas here in Idaho, in more ways than one. There’s lots of snow; and lots of white people. Heh. Welcome to the ‘real’ America, surrounded by split level houses, K-Mart, Target, Safeway, McDonald’s, Sizzler’s, Olive Garden, etc etc.

It feels good to be here, spending time with my new 2-month old sister-in-law, Tamsin, my father-in-law and stepmom-in-law. We spent all of today in pyjamas, talking, cuddling the baby, surfing the web, talking, watching TV…just the kinda family-time rest we were looking for.

Tomorrow we go snowboarding at Schweitzer. I had my first snowboard experience on Tuesday at Sierra at Tahoe. It was SO fun! I guess I had my expectations down so low. The lessons were ok…I struggled with the beginner steps on the flat surface, but once we got up the bunny hill and I slid down for the first time, I felt an ease I had always wanted to feel, but never felt, on rollar-skates/blades, ice-skates, or skis. It was that fun. I fell a few times, but it didn’t hurt. What were all the warnings about a very painful and frustrating first-day on snowboards they warned me of?

But on day 2, we went to Kirkwood and suddenly it wasn’t that easy. Because I went with 3 avid and very excellent snowboarders (Pat, Brendan, Eric), they took me up the blue (intermediate) trail without telling me. I haven’t even graduated from the bunny slope! Merely standing up was a major energy-drainer. Lucky I had the very patient Eric to teach me. Tacit rule is that significant others should never try to teach their significant others because it almost always leads to fights…tried and tested with many other couples, so Pat stayed away as I learnt the basics with Eric. After about 45min, I finally got down, but was adament learning some more, so I went up the green trail by myself. It was harder than I thought. Simple things like going down a slope and speeding up when you see a flat part coming up so you can go by the flat part was not part of my skill-set, so I’d slide down and stop and wonder how I’d start moving again. Finally, I got the gist of it, and was just starting to feel proud of myself…glide down, speed up when there’s a flat part ahead, go past flat part, glide down again….easy-peasy…then in the next bump, I sped up and was just thinking how good I was when BAAAAM!!! I fly up and land right on my tailbone…..gaaaahhhhh…..for two whole minutes I just lay there and I seriously could not move. People were whizzing by me and I was going “help! help!” but I guess I wasn’t loud enough. By some miracle, as I was laying there for a good 5 min in complete pain, the boys whizzed near me and yelled “kellykelly!”. Angels! I finally managed to get up, gasping in pain, and slowly got back down the mountain. That was it for me on day 2.

The car ride back was painful. I could barely sit up, let alone bend down and carry things. But I’m two days into it now and my tailbone is significantly better, so we’ll try Schweitzer tomorrow and see how it goes. I’m adament about getting this right, but I’m definitely sticking with the bunny slope for now. I really like this snowboarding thing, much more than I thought I would…that I’d even desire to go again after that very very painful hit on the tailbone is testament to how much I’m enjoying it. Plus, seeing my husband looking all hot, all geared up and schwooping down the slopes like the expert he is, is an incentive too. He used to be a ski instructor. So I can blush and say, I’m with the ski instructor. Tee hee.

Coming to America

PHEW!!!

It’s been 2 weeks since the Chansidines left Singapore…feels like a lifetime.

We have been incredibly busy. Moving halfway across the world AND planning a wedding from halfway across the world is no easy task. In our first week, we were setting up a new life in New York…signing a lease, opening bank accounts, getting a cellphone, registring gas and electricity bills, unpacking and packing, buying misc. things like a broom, a vacuum cleaner, toiletries…the usual stuff when moving. Felt weird to be tossing out a shitload of stuff in Singapore and in 24 hrs, arriving in a new home and buying the same stuff again. Doh. Kitties are great. They braved an arduous 24hr flight; Fat Cat, the world traveler he is, took it like a champ and pretty much spent the whole time sleeping (which he does all day anyway). Zion and Buddy were freaked out, as they should be. I equate it to being put in a trunk of a car for 24hrs without knowing where you are going. My poor babies. Buddy and Fat Cat took to the new home quickly…Fat Cat can climb stairs! Zion spent the first 20hrs hidden in a tiny tiny crevice between the floor boards and the staircase (she finds the weirdest spots)…but eventually came out to play as per normal. They are now Brooklyn Cats, with a backyard and a staircase. Weather was FREEZING, literally, below zero most of the time we were there. I have found the beauty in stockings and leg warmers and a fluffy down jacket.

In the 2nd week, we flew to San Francisco, where we are now, and organized the world’s most last minute wedding ever! With help from a couple of incredible friends, we pulled off a spectacular wedding at 1015 Folsom, the very club where the Chansidines met. Pictures to follow much later, for I don’t have my own computer/internet connection with me now. We head off to Tahoe sometime today to maybe get some snowboarding in. kellykelly shall attempt the slopes once more; I first tried skiing 4 years ago and hated it. But since the hubby is an avid avid snowboarder, I will attempt to suck it up and give it another try. It feels good to see our friends in San Francisco again…we only wish we had more of our Singapopo buddies with us.

We fly to Idaho next Thursday to visit my father-in-law, his wife and their new baby, celebrate Christmas and get more snowboarding in. This is all as different as life in Singapore can get. We will get to see snow, mountains and open land. I can’t wait!

Good Singaporean Samaritans

I am alone at home packing, moving while Pat’s at work. I have 4 boxes of about 25kg each to ship over to NYC, which need to be carried down one flight of stairs, into elevator then to the post office in the next block. I asked the provision store auntie if I could borrow one of their 20 dollies. The uncle chimes in “nonono…I need to use afterwards”. Fuck it. I find one rusty abandoned one in the grass just outside the next store (serendipity!). Worked fine.

MSN conversation with JMFW

kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
fuck. carrying 4 25kg boxes down one flight of stairs by myself is NO FUCKING JOKE!!!
j says:
want me to come over and help?
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
erm. it’s ok lah. i’ve already done one round of 2 boxes. now i have to go down for one more
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
singaporeans are weird
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
a scrawny girl lugging the boxes to the post office and i’m literally crawling on the ground. men in post office just stare with fascination. NO OFFER TO EVEN HELP!!!
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
i wouldn’t have needed their help
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
but at least ask right??
j says:
you’re kinda cute. if i didn’t know you, i’d offer to help.
j says:
and, i do know you, and i’d still offer to help.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
i know!!!
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
you’d think…ooo cute girl…offer help.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
but nooooo
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
just stare. gawk.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
i think they must be turned on by me sweating and crawling on the floor with my short shorts.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
must be.
j says:
well, i’d do that too for a bit.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
wah lau
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
KNNCCB!
j says:
lol
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
I Wish i had a camera hat…those candid camera types
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
to take a video of everyone’s reactions.
kellykelly – 2 days to NYC! says:
ok. i’m off. wish me luck. i already have a cut on my arm from carrying a box down
j says:
have fun!

I got luckier in round 2. Since I already had a cut on my arm, I couldn’t lift any of the boxes. As I figured out a way to drag each box down step by step without smashing anything, this Jersey-style uncle (wearing running pants, sneakers and gold chain with permed hair) walked down the stairs. I didn’t ask for help and continued bending over and yanking the box. He was on his handphone and paused at the landing of the stairs. I was wondering if he was going to just stand there and watch me bend over. Then he calmly folded his handphone, put it in his addidas pants, then proceeded to carry the other box down the stairs, without even saying anything or looking at me. I profusely said “ohh…thank you! thank you, uncle!”. He waved his hands and carried the other box and puts it on the dolly. “Ohh…thank you! thank you!” I said again. He waved his hand again, not looking at me, and proceeded to walk down the stairs. Jersey-style-uncle angel!

At the post office this time, a young fat dude saw me trying to carry the boxes up the stairs. He walked past me, and then paused, turned around and asked “eh, you need help or not?” I panted “yes! please! thanks!”.

Upon hindsight, I really should have just ASKED people in round 1 to help me out. But I’m abit thick-skinned and don’t wanna seem like a meek little girl that can’t lift her own stuff if she can help it.

But no joke man. Especially since I’m nursing yet another bout of stomach flu. Weird. I guess I have been eating too much lately with everyone wanting to buy us a meal and all. Everytime I overeat, I fall ill. Puked on Wed morning and stomach’s been queasy since. Which sucks, because everyone’s wanting to buy us a meal and I can’t friggin eat! Doc said the stomach flu virus is going round. Careful, folks.

MEOW!

*sniff sniff*

The petmovers came to pick up the cats to send them for a health checkup before their flight on Sunday. Graciela’s done this before, so he was just sulking in the cage. But Zion and Buddy were MEOWING outrageously, and kept scratching to go out. They have never been caged like that before.

I almost cried seeing my babies like that (ok, I cried a little). I’m so sorry for putting them through this. And a 24hr flight coming up…fuck. They are so helpless and confused. It’s not like they can understand “ohh sweetie, we will have a spiral staircase in our new home for you to play with!! It’d all be worth it!!” They’re just thinking “WHAT THE FUCK!? WHY AM I IN THIS THING?? GET ME OUT MOTHAFUCKERS!!”

MEEEEOW!!!

So Many Goodbyes, So Little Time

Haiyah.

I’m getting sad.

Yesterday was my last day at work. I was surprised by all the gifts I got from so many people. The clerical staff bought me a pretty bracelet. My colleagues bought me a pearl necklace/earrings set. The secretaries bought me an awesome pendant. It was so sweet! I felt so ‘gifted’. I felt sad to leave the office I spent the last 2 years in; so many people detest their jobs, I got lucky with a really nice one. Patrick got a note from his student last week which simply stated “Don’t go”. Then yesterday, the note scrawled “Mr C. Please don’t go to America, or else I am very sad.”

Last night, we had a last dinner with my parents’ and their friends. These are the uncles and aunties I grew up knowing. We have dinner and drinks with them very often and Pat has grown to know them very very well. It was sad to say goodbye.

Haiyah…too many goodbyes. It’d have been easier if we just leave quietly. But then again, you think, these wonderful people deserve more than us slinking away.

Haiyah.